To all of my emerging Goddess Sisters, settle for nothing less. This quote and poem is by Marty McConnell, often mistakenly attributed to Frida Kahlo, but either way, a wisdom channel from the collective depth of all women. Let us get stronger in the wake of those who ever hurt us. You can hear the author read the original live below~ simple, raw woman, unadorned. Live well, love well, you have a heart the size of Arizona. 🖤
Frida Kahlo to Marty McConnell
by Marty McConnell
leaving is not enough; you must
stay gone. train your heart
like a dog. change the locks
even on the house he’s never
visited. you lucky, lucky girl.
you have an apartment
just your size. a bathtub
full of tea. a heart the size
of Arizona, but not nearly
so arid. don’t wish away
your cracked past, your
crooked toes, your problems
are papier mache puppets
you made or bought because the vendor
at the market was so compelling you just
had to have them. you had to have him.
and you did. and now you pull down
the bridge between your houses.
you make him call before
he visits. you take a lover
for granted, you take
a lover who looks at you
like maybe you are magic. make
the first bottle you consume
in this place a relic. place it
on whatever altar you fashion
with a knife and five cranberries.
don’t lose too much weight.
stupid girls are always trying
to disappear as revenge. and you
are not stupid.
you loved a man
with more hands than a parade
of beggars, and here you stand.
heart like a four-poster bed. heart like a canvas.
heart leaking something so strong
they can smell it in the street.